Apparently I can't do both, now while working a full time job. I have the rest of my life to enjoy writing, so I'm not stressing over it. On the other hand, I can't predict how many pregnancies I will have to enjoy, so I'm treating this one as if it's the only one I'll ever have. Which means I have lots of work to do to prepare for baby's arrival.
I'll write again, this I'm confident.